Hey guys so you know how I said I
wasn't learning anything gay, well I lied. I learned what polyamorous is.
Is still doing know what aero spectrum is but I digress. Any way what is
Polyamory? Polyamory is where you can love more than one person at once and/or
be emotionally dating more than one person at a time. From what I
understand of it ideal polygamy starts with ideal polyamory. I have
to put ideal in there because theoretical someone who is polyamorous loves
both people equally, thus nobody is shorthanded. All
parties involved are given the same amount of love and treated the
same. Same with ideal polygamy all partners are love and treated
equally. However we are human and history has taught us that things that work
in theory don't always work when applied. so even though I don't know
if it works out this way in real life I am going to say at least 90%
of the time it doesn't ( I mean statistics is not on their side). With all that
being said I think that it is a really cool identity. I also think someone
who truly identifies as this (not someone who just wants to sleep
around that's something else completely) really is in touch with
themselves. I mean you have to know yourself and the type of person you are to
be able to say seriously and honest that you are polyamorous. You
have to have a long conversation with yourself about yourself and how you love
to know things like this about yourself. More importantly it had to
be an honest one which nobody really wants to do. They think they do and they
think they are being honest with themselves and they aren't. They are
all liars. Because being honest with you is one of the hardest things to do. We
like to lie to ourselves it makes us feel all warm and fuzzy on the
inside. (mmmmm hot piping steamy bowl of crap that we just served
to our self mm it look good). Why because when you lie you are lying
to yourself for your own personal gain. Like no theses jeans don't make me look
fat and I am not overweight I am just finally growing some
curves, but all of it is lies. it take more than strength to tell
yourself the truth because if it is actually some deep stuff 9 times out of 10
its going to be something you don't even want to hear from God. So props to you
for being able to talk to yourself. Then they had to explain it to
the various people they are in love with and that could get messy. I
am not going to lie I imagine that conversation going down like an
episode of the Jerry Springer show. It doesn't look to classy in my
head, thing don't go well. so just when you think
our polyamorous friend is out of trouble there is one more
unforeseen complication. They have to keep 2 people happy and treat them
both equally. I mean I know how hard it is to keep one women happy I
couldn't imagine doing it with 2. I don't know about guys through. I just
couldn't imagine how a male would react to being told that he has to share you
with someone else. Polyamory people you’re the shit because you deal
with way more that I could ever handle y'all got
made relationship skills. That’s all I have to say about this post. I
am going to a brunch today ( Sunday the 30th) if something cool happens maybe
the next post will actually be a life post, but until then.
(is song is just odd it has nothing to do with post and i normally don't do covers but his voice makes the voice in my head scream at me to put it on here check him out)
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