I think this one is important to me. I tend to have a temper and an very reactionary. Out of anger I will say things that I mean but in a very hurtful manner. When I could say the same thing at a more appropriate time and nicely. Like saying "your to old for plushies and your just grasping at youth you wasted running in a rat race your not even close to winning. losing more time every day by procrastinating your life away because moving on is to uncomfortable for you." When I could say "have you considered why you hold your plushies so dearly? There may not be a way relive the past but there are still things you can do and experience that won't let you to miss out on the present either." By waiting and letting the anger past I can think clearly about what my priorities are, what I am trying to accomplish, what I need, how I am going to get what I want to accomplish and need, and what to say. When I am not angry I remember how much I care about the other person and why. When I'm not angry I can see a path to winning the fight in a way that cost me the least. I will not let anger inhibit me from reaching my goal.
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